If we trust our loved ones, why don't we believe them when they acknowledge our strengths? Allowing the compliment to land not only helps us, but we honor the one who shared it.
Easier said than done. I've noticed lately that I've reverted to an old tendency to brush off any kindness. I'm trying to suss out what is under that behavior, while at the same time just practicing saying "thank you," and not arguing the point. I can examine the discomfort later when I'm alone.
Thanks TK. It is odd how it arises as a discomfort when it comes from such a trusted source. Indeed worthy of our reflection. Thanks for your shared experience too. x
Thanks so much for sharing Ellie. This piece made me feel a little vulnerable to write but I think that can be a good sign that it will touch someone else, and I am glad to hear that was the case. x
If we trust our loved ones, why don't we believe them when they acknowledge our strengths? Allowing the compliment to land not only helps us, but we honor the one who shared it.
Easier said than done. I've noticed lately that I've reverted to an old tendency to brush off any kindness. I'm trying to suss out what is under that behavior, while at the same time just practicing saying "thank you," and not arguing the point. I can examine the discomfort later when I'm alone.
Thanks TK. It is odd how it arises as a discomfort when it comes from such a trusted source. Indeed worthy of our reflection. Thanks for your shared experience too. x
I love this. It really spoke to me. 💜
Thanks so much for sharing Ellie. This piece made me feel a little vulnerable to write but I think that can be a good sign that it will touch someone else, and I am glad to hear that was the case. x